One who stays brittle, breaks.

What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make? Why?

Hello my friend, my comrade, my co-passenger on a glorious ride. How have you been? Last 2 days were roller coaster for me.

One of dear friend dropped by yesterday, his mother is ill, let us pray for her speedy recovery.

While in search of hard decisions, I found it very hard to spot any. If you mean life-changing hard decisions, they are seldom.

The reason is that I try to change my course of action, much before anticipated changes. And hence, things either come naturally, or find me prepared to face the consequences.

At the same time, I won’t say I have not taken wrong decisions, some of them could include not doing what I should have done. I am learning and growing to handle things smartly. I am a learner, just like you my friend.

I do hard decisions that I take everyday though. Decisions like getting up from bed, when I have to work, even if my body is luring and shouting for more sleep.

Putting up efforts to stay consistent, I take hard decisions daily to stay going, even if the ongoing reality is not much affirming.

I take the hard decision to stay with me, trust me and believe in my abilities, even when I know, that I can in future, or have tasted defeat in the past.

It is not about the hard decisions, it is about the right decisions. They can be hard to implement or live by, but they are the most natural ones.

Life doesn’t promise happiness all the time, it always promise rawness, authenticity, and challenges. Let’s embrace it with grit, and try to be natural more, than we try to feel happy.

Things won’t be easier, they would be simpler. And, who likes easy? I find it boring. 🙂

My love to you, my friend.

Cheers.

~R