Are you holding a grudge? About?
Yoo! Recently, one of my good friend, asked me a similar question. It was not specific to grudge, but regret and guilt.
I feel, they are somewhat related. As there is no space for any of them, in a peace seeking mind.
I think it is easy said than done, that I don’t hold grudges. We don’t hold grudge, the grudge hold us. In fact, We just need to get free from it.
I think there are 2 ways, a grudge hold and haunt us, again and again.
1. Person
Ignoring the things that are wrong in the eyes of law, there is no concept of right or wrong.
‘someone did bad with someone’, is just a matter of perspectives. It is just that, we expected something, but something else happened. It is rather a failure of our intelligence, so it is ok.
We can be disappointed with someone, but stop it from becoming a Grudge, by using the power of ‘Forgiveness’.
Forgive and Move on.
2. Present
So, the second part is the situation we are put in, due to that person or event. I think this is the harder part. Because it is a slow process.
We can consider our life like a stock market index. It do go down, and come up.
It can be a completely new blog, in which we can relate our life with a mathematical concept of ‘Simple Moving Average’, so definitely later. 🙂
For now, it is ok to understand that once our life market index comes up, it help us to give the final blow to the grudge by ‘Forgetting’ it.
So stop crying, and start the grind.
I am happy, that no grudge ever spent a lot of time on me. And I thank god for being so kind. 🙂
Live Light, Live Free.
Love.
~R
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